"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what's up w/ this girl?

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Hey Fellas. :wave:

My #1 plate is acting really :trouble: lately.

Most of the time, I'm w/ this girl. We just hang out & chill. She's hott, but I don't want an LTR right now, although I like messing w/ her sometimes.

All of a sudden, this girl is getting very b*tchy, being mean to me, but she constantly wants to be around me and gets closer to me every time she sees me w/ other girls. I've started ignoring her, b/c her being that way isn't cool to me. It's almost pissing me off. :nono: The problem is we're in the same social circle. Should I just call the girl out on her b&tchiness or just ignore her? :kick:

Man. She's hott though. I love messing w/ her. :rock:
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like she wants to become exclusive with you. When a woman wants to become exclusive to a guy she's competing for, she'll start doing things to an extreme. Some will become very posessive, some will become extremely generous, some will begin to nag. This is the point where you need to decide whether to drop the woman completely, or make her a LTR.
 
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Newb question, whats LTR stand for?

I tryed to guess lol... kinda got Life Time R...
 
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thanks desdinova man. :rockon:

i don't want a ltr w/ her yet, b/c i'm still getting to know her. right now, she's being a bad girl. :trouble: until she behaves herself, i'll just move on & stop spinning this particular plate. her being like this isn't any fun. :nervous:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're giving her mixed signals, so she's giving you mixed signals.
 
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call it out with humor. Flirt with a bit and turn situation around with Kino. And tell her to her face that you are not hers yet.
 
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