"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whats up guys, I need some advice on this one!!!

noseguard20

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I met this girl at work and got her number and expressed my romantic interest. She knows I want her. I talk nasty to her and everything, even when she is at work. She likes my caveman persona, such as using my size to intimidate her. SHE KNOWS I'M AGGRESIVE BECAUSE WE KID ABOUT BEATING EACH OTHER UP. I get these overwhelmingly good vibes from her in person. Extremely sexual vibes. HOWEVER, she stood me up on the first date, when i call, she sometimes puts me on hold and never comes back(we'd be having a good ass conversation), and i'll ask her to call me and she'll never call!!! Sometimes we'll have a good ass conversation for 2 hours and I'd even end the conversation. The thing is, is that I never mention or mentioned any of these annoyances to her, and it seems to turn her on even more when i see her in person, because it makes it seem like i don't give a ****. I act like it didn't happen becuase i'm trying to use confident persistence without appearing desperate. I need advice on when and when not to call or what i should say when i call or how can i possibly get her to call me? How long should I keep the conversations? Bruh, I just know she likes me and i know for a fact she is testing me. I JUST KNOW IT!! OH MAN!!!! SHE MAKES ME SO HORNY!!!!!!!! AAAAAH!!

help me out guys!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chili kat

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Personally, I'd start calling her on the BS and ask how she plans on making it up to me.
 

Viking25

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How old is she? She sounds like an immature 17 y.o brat!...Now if that's the case...she acts normal and no don't call het on her BS!..If she is older like in her 20s...then yeah,I would mention that to her ..maybe avoid her for few days?
 

masteralios

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your giving her too much attention and she knows it

step back and avoid her for a bit, she'll come back running to and and asking why are u avoiding her


dont fall for her little womanly tests, show her who the man is
 

Crank_It_Up

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Lincoln freed the slaves during the civil war, but you seem to want to reverse that. She treats you like dirt and you come back for more, you don't need advice, you already know what to do, but lack the balls to do it. She's having fun at your expense, sort of like playing with a retarded dog... you throw it against the wall and it comes running back wagging its tail. Don't worry, she'll soon get tired of dominating such a weak fish and move on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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