"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whats this mean

pokerstud

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when a guy does this to a girl
eye contact for a few seconds
looks down look back up and smirks


is this alpha behavior or just plain insolence
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MotownMack

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looking down, breaking eye contact are not typically alpha behaviors.

sounds like a shy person.
 

Mavrick

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If he's looking back and smiling he's miles ahead of most guys. Most guys will look away, tuck tail, and run.
 

LovelyLady

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penkitten said:
if he goes to fixing his socks, he digs her.
:crackup: Now there will be a million guys posting saying "I fixed my socks... she MUST have known I liked her!" :crackup: You really MUST be more careful about your posts, Dearie!:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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schttrj

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ok, i am going to say something different in here...

first of all, it is very necessary to keep the eye contact for a few more seconds, this is actually starting the game on!

secondly, i dont think breaking of eye contact has any negative effect, because in here, u show ur confidence by keeping the eye contact and you are taking it away which is in fact baiting her more into the game.

just remember, not to break it with a smile or any hi intantly. very bad! u will be very surprised to see how naturals work in this area.

eye contact + silence = sexual tension, and smile + talking = comfort.
 
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