"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
whats this mean
- Thread starter pokerstud
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MotownMack
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sounds like a shy person.
penkitten
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:crackup: Now there will be a million guys posting saying "I fixed my socks... she MUST have known I liked her!" :crackup: You really MUST be more careful about your posts, Dearie!penkitten said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
first of all, it is very necessary to keep the eye contact for a few more seconds, this is actually starting the game on!
secondly, i dont think breaking of eye contact has any negative effect, because in here, u show ur confidence by keeping the eye contact and you are taking it away which is in fact baiting her more into the game.
just remember, not to break it with a smile or any hi intantly. very bad! u will be very surprised to see how naturals work in this area.
eye contact + silence = sexual tension, and smile + talking = comfort.