"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's this forum about?

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I stumbled here searching for the attraction forums, and found a thread of posters bashing MM and their forum.

Now I'm cool with that, no "system" is perfect for everything..

The good part about systems as MM and others, is many before you who have had succes with the material, you can go out and get some experience fast. It's good to have some general gameplan starting out, agreed?

So, i looked at the SoSuave.com, and theres tons of material all very different.

I liked the posts on confidence, congruence, acting with beliefs, its good stuff.

Then i go read the forum and theres a post from a Nigga about his Nigga's being Nigga's, and another one about how being a virgin, saving sex for marriage and so on, is good?

So, tell me, im not dissing on you, but what is this DJ'ing really about? :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it is finding your passion in life and to respect yourself.
 
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Its building up your personality, and finding your passion in life, like CA said.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Crazy Asian said:
it is finding your passion in life and to respect yourself.
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All of the above but authentically.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This forum is mostly about whining, flaming and bashing women.
 
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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Just a thought..

ChrizZ said:
This forum is mostly about whining, flaming and bashing women.
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That's what it has turned to now. The posts from a year back, and before, are actually quite excellent. I'm sure, OP, that if you dig through the generic crap that is frequently posted on this site, you'll find some hidden gems, and some amazing people.
There will always be *******s on Forums, people who whine, people who are jealous, are haters, etc. You just have to ignore them, and find what really matters.
Peace.
 
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yeah don't expect your problems to be solved by posting on here.
Read only A FEW of the good posts in the dj bible.
reading too many will fvck with your mind.
 
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I suggest that you look for Rollo Tomassi, Senor Fingers, Pook, Giovanni Casanova, VIVAlasVEGASBaby, and many others. You will figure out why we are anti-routine. Going by routine will only make you into something like a social robot that will be screwed if the target changes the game plan, so to speak. Michael Meyers (from Austin Powers fame) put it best, "It's all about the mojo, baby." Mojo is all about being authentic.

DJ-ing is about an internal locus of control (believing that you are in control of your own life instead of anything else) and leaving any "victim mentality" behind (no more pity for any of us).

Personally, I love this forum.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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redspicyflag said:
It's about living your life the way you want to

sure it started out as attraction

but now it's a bigger theme

Changed my life completely

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agreed

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