"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Whats this chick up to now?

Duracell_Bunny

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2009
Messages
247
Reaction score
6
Location
England
I really don't have much use with this chick other than filling in my regret of not ****ing her (only 23, pettite and slim HB7 when dolled up).

My main reason for posting is I just don't understand what the hell is going on and if this chick is nothing more than trouble.

Right now I'm craving for a fresh potential anyway (but yeah I'm inexperienced and that takes me time).

Short of it is was dating this girl in my village a while back who appeared to show high IL. Kissed another guy infront of me while meeting up for a socalled date, but I walked off at that moment causing it to go all awkered and messy.

We had slept together once but didn't ****.

Gave it a rest, tried once more but got rejected (nothing big, was a simple invite for a drink in the local or chilling at mine), gave up at that point and focused on other things. She had texted 2-3 weeks later with random fluff that many of the times I didn't bother responding to or kept very brief. Tried one more time and got rejected with no counter offer.

Thought thats twice, next.

Almost two months later she started this bloodey texting thing again, my responses were just freindly and even more brief. Its a small world around here and I don't want bad vibes going off about me. Then out of the blue she asks me out on a date which I rejected saying I was busy and maybe another time.

Didn't contact her since, a couple of weeks after (now) I get and invite from her to go to the fireworks display tommorow night???

Whats so stange is her relationship status appeared in my Facebook newsfeed a few days ago saying "...went from being "single" to "it's complicated." " WTF is complicated supposed to mean?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

The Bad Ass Canadian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2003
Messages
1,652
Reaction score
20
Location
CAN-NUH-DUH
Stop falling for her crap. She's trying to string you along as an option, while not giving it up. Have some self-respect and don't even go there... her loss.
 

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
Duracell_Bunny said:
Didn't contact her since, a couple of weeks after (now) I get and invite from her to go to the fireworks display tommorow night???
Fireworks display? Lame.

Whats so stange is her relationship status appeared in my Facebook newsfeed a few days ago saying "...went from being "single" to "it's complicated." " WTF is complicated supposed to mean?
That's just great. Who cares? Why does it matter what her status is? Is she banging you? Is she introducing you to women who are banging you? No?

So she's useless?

Either put this b***h to work or get rid of her. Preferably the latter.
 

handle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
893
Reaction score
108
I didn't read your post because you starting describing a particular girl.
 

Kailex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2010
Messages
2,072
Reaction score
190
Location
New Jersey
Duracell, what the hell?

WHO CARES what is up with that girl.
You're not dating her but it almost seems to me like you are considering it because you are checking out her Facebook.

Look, she just wanted you as ego validation.

That's all she wants. She probably ran out of guys so she thought she'd come back to a sure thing.

Just ignore her. You seem to caught up into her to really be able to deal mentally with her. And the only fireworks display I take women to are the fireworks they see when I get them underneath my sheets.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top