"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whats this chick up to now?

Duracell_Bunny

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I really don't have much use with this chick other than filling in my regret of not ****ing her (only 23, pettite and slim HB7 when dolled up).

My main reason for posting is I just don't understand what the hell is going on and if this chick is nothing more than trouble.

Right now I'm craving for a fresh potential anyway (but yeah I'm inexperienced and that takes me time).

Short of it is was dating this girl in my village a while back who appeared to show high IL. Kissed another guy infront of me while meeting up for a socalled date, but I walked off at that moment causing it to go all awkered and messy.

We had slept together once but didn't ****.

Gave it a rest, tried once more but got rejected (nothing big, was a simple invite for a drink in the local or chilling at mine), gave up at that point and focused on other things. She had texted 2-3 weeks later with random fluff that many of the times I didn't bother responding to or kept very brief. Tried one more time and got rejected with no counter offer.

Thought thats twice, next.

Almost two months later she started this bloodey texting thing again, my responses were just freindly and even more brief. Its a small world around here and I don't want bad vibes going off about me. Then out of the blue she asks me out on a date which I rejected saying I was busy and maybe another time.

Didn't contact her since, a couple of weeks after (now) I get and invite from her to go to the fireworks display tommorow night???

Whats so stange is her relationship status appeared in my Facebook newsfeed a few days ago saying "...went from being "single" to "it's complicated." " WTF is complicated supposed to mean?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Stop falling for her crap. She's trying to string you along as an option, while not giving it up. Have some self-respect and don't even go there... her loss.
 

Iceberg

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Duracell_Bunny said:
Didn't contact her since, a couple of weeks after (now) I get and invite from her to go to the fireworks display tommorow night???
Fireworks display? Lame.

Whats so stange is her relationship status appeared in my Facebook newsfeed a few days ago saying "...went from being "single" to "it's complicated." " WTF is complicated supposed to mean?
That's just great. Who cares? Why does it matter what her status is? Is she banging you? Is she introducing you to women who are banging you? No?

So she's useless?

Either put this b***h to work or get rid of her. Preferably the latter.
 

handle

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I didn't read your post because you starting describing a particular girl.
 

Kailex

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Duracell, what the hell?

WHO CARES what is up with that girl.
You're not dating her but it almost seems to me like you are considering it because you are checking out her Facebook.

Look, she just wanted you as ego validation.

That's all she wants. She probably ran out of guys so she thought she'd come back to a sure thing.

Just ignore her. You seem to caught up into her to really be able to deal mentally with her. And the only fireworks display I take women to are the fireworks they see when I get them underneath my sheets.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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