"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whats the verdict on talking to girls about other girls?

TomTucker

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Title says it all: whats the verdict on talking to girls about other girls/past relationships? I've been told before doing so is a great way to make it clear to a girl you are not interested in her in anything other than a purely platonic friendship, which is not something I want to do, but I find it's a really easy/fun way to make conversation and can sometimes give you the opportunity to tell her what you like (and she tells you what she likes) and what turns you on (and in turn she'll tell you what turns her on), etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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3countriesPlan

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I talk about past girls if I feel like it. No real reason why but for those more technical people it can help dhv yourself and communicate some things to your current target without having to say them directly.

Example: "My last girlfriend was a model, she was really caring but I had to break up with her cause she called me too much and it freaked me out— the s3x was great though, she could really deep throat."
 

Zerro

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I'll talk about them with the ones whom I am just friends with. If anything it's revealed which ones are harboring feelings for me when they get jealous of the new girl I've mentioning to them.
 
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