"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the verdict on talking to girls about other girls?

TomTucker

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Title says it all: whats the verdict on talking to girls about other girls/past relationships? I've been told before doing so is a great way to make it clear to a girl you are not interested in her in anything other than a purely platonic friendship, which is not something I want to do, but I find it's a really easy/fun way to make conversation and can sometimes give you the opportunity to tell her what you like (and she tells you what she likes) and what turns you on (and in turn she'll tell you what turns her on), etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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3countriesPlan

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I talk about past girls if I feel like it. No real reason why but for those more technical people it can help dhv yourself and communicate some things to your current target without having to say them directly.

Example: "My last girlfriend was a model, she was really caring but I had to break up with her cause she called me too much and it freaked me out— the s3x was great though, she could really deep throat."
 

Zerro

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I'll talk about them with the ones whom I am just friends with. If anything it's revealed which ones are harboring feelings for me when they get jealous of the new girl I've mentioning to them.
 
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