"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's the sweet spot for a woman, height-wise

bmp2cpm

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Kind of a random question, but curious what others think.

What's the sweet spot for a woman's height for you? I'm coming out of a long marriage with a woman who was about 6 inches shorter than me and I'm finding I like the taller girls now. I'm starting to find shorter attractive women really boring.

Although I wouldn't want to be with a woman who is as tall as me, so 3 to 4 inches difference for me seems to be the sweet spot these days.

What's your sweet spot?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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I'm 5'10", and I very much prefer shorter women. If they're too short, they look a little freaky though. I'll say 5'2" to 5'7".
 

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5'3 so they're not constantly in the way and taking up too much space.
 

Who Dares Win

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About 5'11 here, I like them close to my height but not taller, from 5'8 to 5'11.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Ever since I was a teen I liked really short women...like under 5' short. Can't explain why, I just do. I still like short women.

My wife is 5'10". :confused: :nervous:
 

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OdetteDelacrioix said:
I'm 5'6" and enjoy the best sex ever in my life. never have been any issue about height.
That's not saying much, as they might all be fatties. I could have slept with 500 women by now if I wanted.

I like girls who are around 5'5 as I am 6'1.
 

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I like them around 5'0" or so. The petite ones just seem so much more feminine to me.
 
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