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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's the sweet spot for a woman, height-wise

bmp2cpm

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Kind of a random question, but curious what others think.

What's the sweet spot for a woman's height for you? I'm coming out of a long marriage with a woman who was about 6 inches shorter than me and I'm finding I like the taller girls now. I'm starting to find shorter attractive women really boring.

Although I wouldn't want to be with a woman who is as tall as me, so 3 to 4 inches difference for me seems to be the sweet spot these days.

What's your sweet spot?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko

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I'm 5'10", and I very much prefer shorter women. If they're too short, they look a little freaky though. I'll say 5'2" to 5'7".
 

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5'3 so they're not constantly in the way and taking up too much space.
 

Who Dares Win

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About 5'11 here, I like them close to my height but not taller, from 5'8 to 5'11.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BetterCallSaul

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Ever since I was a teen I liked really short women...like under 5' short. Can't explain why, I just do. I still like short women.

My wife is 5'10". :confused: :nervous:
 

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OdetteDelacrioix said:
I'm 5'6" and enjoy the best sex ever in my life. never have been any issue about height.
That's not saying much, as they might all be fatties. I could have slept with 500 women by now if I wanted.

I like girls who are around 5'5 as I am 6'1.
 

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I like them around 5'0" or so. The petite ones just seem so much more feminine to me.
 
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