"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's the real reason that's holding you back from meeting women?

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What's the real reason that's holding you back from meeting women besides not being "confident"? Is there some visible deformity/ twitch or mental issue that you don't want to reveal on SS? Is it that you live with your parents and you think women will think less of you? Drug habit?

Is there something else that most posters who don't go out or talk to women have that they don't want to mention on SS that might be the reason they prefer to just post on here and not actually work on what might be preventing them or thinking is preventing them from meeting women?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the biggest problem everyone has is the fear of a hurt ego.That's the first thing you need to overcome.Then,for me, the idea of futility.


For example , I never approach the shiny 10s.Shiny 10s are those about which everything suggests high-maintenance.They got that huge gold digger aura about them.You look at them and you know that if you don't drive a 2013 Bmw they won't give you the time of a day and that her ex was a 70 year old big shot even though she's almost 20. And I can barely afford to fill the gas tank of my 2001.


I'm so attracted to that type that I sometimes feel I'd be willing to give my left nut for a premature ejaculation with her. Talk about putting women on a pedestal,huh ? But no ,that's not what I'm doing.

Thing is that in my mind they don't look for a human being, but for a walking credit card. And sadly,there's always armies of idiots willing to provide just that. So to me , it just seems futile.

I don't know,I might be wrong, but as of right now , that's whats keeping me from taking initiative towards them.
 
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When I was chasing "strange" all the time, the problem was never with meeting women. The problem was meeting QUALITY women worth keeping long term. A quality woman to me is one that is an HB8 or greater, good personality, good job, respects me, and is a little old school when it comes to relationships. Those types aren't found on every street corner.
 
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i live out in the boonies, number of girls here is very limited, 99% are HB1-3 ...
i can't leave this place for another 2 years,. once in a while there is a miracle and i do see a decent looking girl i approach her, but honestly i have to wait till i leave this desert
 
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