What's the procedure when a chick FR on FB.

[Special T]

I know some people like to have a lot of friends so they'll add almost anyone.

I know this girl from a scrabble league I was a part of but we never talked or played against each other. I can't play anymore because of my work schedule. I got a friend request from her yesterday but I don't know the "DJ" way about handling it. I already added her... but

a) Add and don't contact her

b) Add and send her a message/post on her wall (mention something about scrabble of course since that's our only link)

 

[Exhumed]

I'd have a short facebook chat her when she's online and get her number during.

Corresponding through messages and wall posts is not something I like to do...if I want her now why would I send a message, get a message, send a message, get a message, and end up waiting days before I even get a number?

 

[Kal0051]

I just chat with them the next time I see them on and get the number. Then you can call and invite her out to something fun.

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

I know some people like to have a lot of friends so they'll add almost anyone.

I know this girl from a scrabble league I was a part of but we never talked or played against each other. I can't play anymore because of my work schedule. I got a friend request from her yesterday but I don't know the "DJ" way about handling it. I already added her... but

a) Add and don't contact her

b) Add and send her a message/post on her wall (mention something about scrabble of course since that's our only link)

Basically dude, your goal is to get her off the website and to the phone QUICKLY. Some girls Friend Request because they're interested. Others, not so much. Others are neutral. It's up to you to find out. Here's what you do:

Accept the request and see if she's online. If so, chat with her for a few minutes...be interesting, funny, witty and let her do most of the chatting. Then exchange numbers or better yet, have her call you. My favorite move is to have her call me RIGHT away. Make it into a game. On the phone, spend less than 5-10 max and invite her out with you. You gotta check out my book in the siggy...I break it down with samples and a step by step on everything you should know about Facebook Pickup.

Good luck!