"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the procedure when a chick FR on FB.

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I know some people like to have a lot of friends so they'll add almost anyone.

I know this girl from a scrabble league I was a part of but we never talked or played against each other. I can't play anymore because of my work schedule. I got a friend request from her yesterday but I don't know the "DJ" way about handling it. I already added her... but

a) Add and don't contact her

b) Add and send her a message/post on her wall (mention something about scrabble of course since that's our only link)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd have a short facebook chat her when she's online and get her number during.

Corresponding through messages and wall posts is not something I like to do...if I want her now why would I send a message, get a message, send a message, get a message, and end up waiting days before I even get a number?
 
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I just chat with them the next time I see them on and get the number. Then you can call and invite her out to something fun.
 
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Special T said:
I know some people like to have a lot of friends so they'll add almost anyone.

I know this girl from a scrabble league I was a part of but we never talked or played against each other. I can't play anymore because of my work schedule. I got a friend request from her yesterday but I don't know the "DJ" way about handling it. I already added her... but

a) Add and don't contact her

b) Add and send her a message/post on her wall (mention something about scrabble of course since that's our only link)
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Basically dude, your goal is to get her off the website and to the phone QUICKLY. Some girls Friend Request because they're interested. Others, not so much. Others are neutral. It's up to you to find out. Here's what you do:

Accept the request and see if she's online. If so, chat with her for a few minutes...be interesting, funny, witty and let her do most of the chatting. Then exchange numbers or better yet, have her call you. My favorite move is to have her call me RIGHT away. Make it into a game. On the phone, spend less than 5-10 max and invite her out with you. You gotta check out my book in the siggy...I break it down with samples and a step by step on everything you should know about Facebook Pickup.

Good luck!
 
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