Seems to me most people just get some time consuming boring job (unless by some chance the boring job isn't boring to them), get married to some woman who if she isn't ugly or fat already, will be sooner than later, have kids, and that's how the world continues? Am I missing anything?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What's the point of life?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yes you need to create the life you want. The majority of the human race are sheep. They see and do what the person next to them is doing. they see them driving a certain car and think I need that car. You need to step back and think I'm on earth for a certain time. I can do anything I want.
DonGorgon
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to make more humans and mAke sure they live long enough to make more humans .. thats all nature wants from us
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This^^^DonGorgon said:
The answer to life is not '42'.
It's love - children's love, specifically. Your child's love for you, to be exact.
Unfortunately, it's one of those things you can't explain very well, until you have one yourself. Then it is so obvious as to be completely self-evident.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It's not like there's a shortage of humans. Kids are great if they're yours; I'm sure if I accidentally had one, I'd be very fond of the child. But the best thing I could do for your kids is to not make more kids of my own, so as not to compete with them for the world's very finite amount of resources. Failure to multiply does not make a life pointless, especially in an overpopulated species.
I absolutely love this question. I'll offer my opinion, but I always say take other people's answers, including mine, with a grain of salt.
From a natural perspective, and as DonGorgon said, the basic point is to perpetuate the species...but we have so much time in our lives, and the power to choose what to do with it, so I believe there's more to it than just that. Also, that's just plain boring to me, so I choose to squeeze out more.
Taking it past the biological imperative, the point of life is whatever you want it to be. People will try to tell you how to live your life, but the fact is, if you take a look around, NO ONE actually knows what's going on here. NO ONE!!! Some people have more experience and wisdom than others, but no one knows what this crazy experiment called life really is. We're just thrown into this world where countless people will claim to have truths and "the way", but it all comes down to what you want it to be. You can do pretty much anything.
Do you want to be an agent for change against what you consider injustices?
Do you want to indulge in every pleasure possible, and focus your life around them? Drugs? Sex?
Do you want to run rampant and make people's lives miserable?
Do you want to be a source of positivity for everyone you meet?
Do you want to be a cynic, be lazy, and throw blame around for your misgivings?
I mean, you can literally do anything. Ultimately, I want to live to make my life, and the lives of others around me more enjoyable, because I believe enjoying this crazy process of life is one of its greatest purposes. It sounds like you're beginning to question what exactly is going on here, but that's a great thing. A life without questioning and reflection is a life not worth living.
From a natural perspective, and as DonGorgon said, the basic point is to perpetuate the species...but we have so much time in our lives, and the power to choose what to do with it, so I believe there's more to it than just that. Also, that's just plain boring to me, so I choose to squeeze out more.
Taking it past the biological imperative, the point of life is whatever you want it to be. People will try to tell you how to live your life, but the fact is, if you take a look around, NO ONE actually knows what's going on here. NO ONE!!! Some people have more experience and wisdom than others, but no one knows what this crazy experiment called life really is. We're just thrown into this world where countless people will claim to have truths and "the way", but it all comes down to what you want it to be. You can do pretty much anything.
Do you want to be an agent for change against what you consider injustices?
Do you want to indulge in every pleasure possible, and focus your life around them? Drugs? Sex?
Do you want to run rampant and make people's lives miserable?
Do you want to be a source of positivity for everyone you meet?
Do you want to be a cynic, be lazy, and throw blame around for your misgivings?
I mean, you can literally do anything. Ultimately, I want to live to make my life, and the lives of others around me more enjoyable, because I believe enjoying this crazy process of life is one of its greatest purposes. It sounds like you're beginning to question what exactly is going on here, but that's a great thing. A life without questioning and reflection is a life not worth living.
Diaforetikos
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Do you feel pointless or something?
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
No point in life per se- invent and creat your own meaning in life and pursue! I am here to have fun and enjoy, see, and experience as much as possible. Once everything is crossed off on my list, I am good...
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Serg897
Master Don Juan
Truth. If you see your purpose in life as only having children you suffer from a real lack of perspective. The population of the planet is now over 7 billion and growing exponentially - future generations wont thank us for handing them the problems they will face when carrying capacity is reached and there isn't enough food for everyone (there are already many places with food shortages in the underdeveloped world). There are already enough people breeding.
I think we have to find our own purpose, and see if we can change the world for the better.
And no, having sex with as many women as possible in our finite lifetimes is also not a good purpose.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"Existence precedes essence." Look it up.
Here's a good writeup, surprising since it's coming from 'about.com'..
http://atheism.about.com/od/existentialistthemes/a/existence.htm
Here's a good writeup, surprising since it's coming from 'about.com'..
http://atheism.about.com/od/existentialistthemes/a/existence.htm
Find something to give your life meaning and go do it.
I am a selfish person. Mine is to enjoy each day I am above ground whether it be sitting around doing nothing, helping family members, hanging out with friends or love ones. As long as I am help and responsible, I don't really care what happens around me.
Others can help populate the earth, I am not going to have kids.
I am a selfish person. Mine is to enjoy each day I am above ground whether it be sitting around doing nothing, helping family members, hanging out with friends or love ones. As long as I am help and responsible, I don't really care what happens around me.
Others can help populate the earth, I am not going to have kids.