letmeshowyou
Don Juan
25...I'm 20
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what's the oldest woman you have ever slept with?
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
12
Never slept with an older woman after I reached about 22.
The oldest was probably 29, when I was around 31.
Now that I am trying to bring up the age bar, I find that most of my prospects are in the mid 20's range. It's noce to have the tight little bodies, but it's too bad that it's hard to relate to them on any other level.
I have a female friend who is 36 that I could probably tap if I were to put a little effort into it. Had a couple of drinks with her at the bar the other night where she was giving me back rubs and sh!t.....we were even talking about hitting the sex shop that night so she could stock up on toys. Too bad we both had a few too many drinks to be driving across town.
The oldest was probably 29, when I was around 31.
Now that I am trying to bring up the age bar, I find that most of my prospects are in the mid 20's range. It's noce to have the tight little bodies, but it's too bad that it's hard to relate to them on any other level.
I have a female friend who is 36 that I could probably tap if I were to put a little effort into it. Had a couple of drinks with her at the bar the other night where she was giving me back rubs and sh!t.....we were even talking about hitting the sex shop that night so she could stock up on toys. Too bad we both had a few too many drinks to be driving across town.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
32, i was 19. she used to be a stripper.
now i'm 22, and i'm working on a 40yo
now i'm 22, and i'm working on a 40yo