"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whats the oldest girl u've dated? Any tips for older women?

Soprano

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I've got a date with a 33 yr old hottie (im 22) on Sunday.... We're doing dinner and playing pool... that'll be the biggest age diff for me. prior to her it was a 27 yr old when I was 21. whats the biggest age diff you've been with/dated?

Older chicks love me... I'm a big guy and while younger girls often dont respond the best to me, older girls will actually try to pick me up lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never actually dated an older woman, but i did fvck a 27 year old and a 30 year old when i was 21. Good times.
 

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My range is 16-57 so far, I , I don't see it getting extended on either side any time soon.
 

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Holy damn. You hooked up with a 57 year old? Awesome. I assume she was pretty for her age?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drewskie

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They are considered cougars my friend, that's why they are approaching you. Not that there'sanything wrong with that. 33 is no big deal, it'll be fun for you, trust me. But....... I'm 29 andI just hooked up with a 20 year old, and the oldest, was only 30.
 

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Age is simply a case of mind over matter.... if you don't mind, it don't matter.
 

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I briefly dated a 40 (the oldest compared to my age at the time) year old when I was 24 or 25. My ex is 40 years old. I've dated so many older women that I've lost count. They are so good at giving bj's that it's ridiculous.
 

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Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigJimbo

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bigjohnson said:
Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
 

bigjohnson

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BigJimbo said:
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
I'd say the average is more like 16+. The common range is 16-18, with most having a Romeo and Juliet sort of provision that pushes it lower in certain circumstances. As for Canada, "The Tackling Violent Crime Act took effect on 1 May 2008, raising the age of consent to 16 from 14."




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^but younger have less experience
So? All she has to do is do as I tell her.
 

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****ed a 40ish woman once (she was fit though) just to try it out @ 24. Wouldn't do it again, the older woman thing is a little overhyped imo but if you got a fantasy about it then go for it and try it out and at least you can say that you tried it.
 

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When I was 19 I ****ed a woman who was 33 doing her PHD at Yale
 

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I f**ked a realtor who was 51 and I was 20. All because of that show Deal or No Deal. And she must've done this cuz her daughter wouldn't be interested in me unless I had 6 figures on me. 6 feet didn't matter to her.

I even f**ked one of my neighbors who was oh so fine and at age 41 when I was 18. She waited until the house was to herself, despite the fact she was staying directly across the street from me.

Here's the bottom skinny, age don't make a difference.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When I was 25 I dated a women of 35 for 3 years. Hot, very hot...! When I was 29 I had one of 24. A very good surprise (sexually)...
 
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