"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats the oldest girl u've dated? Any tips for older women?

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I've got a date with a 33 yr old hottie (im 22) on Sunday.... We're doing dinner and playing pool... that'll be the biggest age diff for me. prior to her it was a 27 yr old when I was 21. whats the biggest age diff you've been with/dated?

Older chicks love me... I'm a big guy and while younger girls often dont respond the best to me, older girls will actually try to pick me up lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've never actually dated an older woman, but i did fvck a 27 year old and a 30 year old when i was 21. Good times.
 

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My range is 16-57 so far, I , I don't see it getting extended on either side any time soon.
 

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Holy damn. You hooked up with a 57 year old? Awesome. I assume she was pretty for her age?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They are considered cougars my friend, that's why they are approaching you. Not that there'sanything wrong with that. 33 is no big deal, it'll be fun for you, trust me. But....... I'm 29 andI just hooked up with a 20 year old, and the oldest, was only 30.
 

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Age is simply a case of mind over matter.... if you don't mind, it don't matter.
 

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I briefly dated a 40 (the oldest compared to my age at the time) year old when I was 24 or 25. My ex is 40 years old. I've dated so many older women that I've lost count. They are so good at giving bj's that it's ridiculous.
 

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Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigjohnson said:
Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
I'd say the average is more like 16+. The common range is 16-18, with most having a Romeo and Juliet sort of provision that pushes it lower in certain circumstances. As for Canada, "The Tackling Violent Crime Act took effect on 1 May 2008, raising the age of consent to 16 from 14."




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^but younger have less experience
So? All she has to do is do as I tell her.
 

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****ed a 40ish woman once (she was fit though) just to try it out @ 24. Wouldn't do it again, the older woman thing is a little overhyped imo but if you got a fantasy about it then go for it and try it out and at least you can say that you tried it.
 

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When I was 19 I ****ed a woman who was 33 doing her PHD at Yale
 

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I f**ked a realtor who was 51 and I was 20. All because of that show Deal or No Deal. And she must've done this cuz her daughter wouldn't be interested in me unless I had 6 figures on me. 6 feet didn't matter to her.

I even f**ked one of my neighbors who was oh so fine and at age 41 when I was 18. She waited until the house was to herself, despite the fact she was staying directly across the street from me.

Here's the bottom skinny, age don't make a difference.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When I was 25 I dated a women of 35 for 3 years. Hot, very hot...! When I was 29 I had one of 24. A very good surprise (sexually)...
 
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