"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the oldest girl u've dated? Any tips for older women?

Soprano

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I've got a date with a 33 yr old hottie (im 22) on Sunday.... We're doing dinner and playing pool... that'll be the biggest age diff for me. prior to her it was a 27 yr old when I was 21. whats the biggest age diff you've been with/dated?

Older chicks love me... I'm a big guy and while younger girls often dont respond the best to me, older girls will actually try to pick me up lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've never actually dated an older woman, but i did fvck a 27 year old and a 30 year old when i was 21. Good times.
 

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My range is 16-57 so far, I , I don't see it getting extended on either side any time soon.
 

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Holy damn. You hooked up with a 57 year old? Awesome. I assume she was pretty for her age?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They are considered cougars my friend, that's why they are approaching you. Not that there'sanything wrong with that. 33 is no big deal, it'll be fun for you, trust me. But....... I'm 29 andI just hooked up with a 20 year old, and the oldest, was only 30.
 

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Age is simply a case of mind over matter.... if you don't mind, it don't matter.
 

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I briefly dated a 40 (the oldest compared to my age at the time) year old when I was 24 or 25. My ex is 40 years old. I've dated so many older women that I've lost count. They are so good at giving bj's that it's ridiculous.
 

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Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BigJimbo

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bigjohnson said:
Age differential is interesting. When I was 24 I nailed a 40, and 16 older is still my "record", and recently I hit one "barely legal" at 25 years younger, also my "record". For any lurking feminists out there, sorry ladies, younger is better f*cking, no contest.
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Barely legal is 14 in most of the world including Canada.
I'd say the average is more like 16+. The common range is 16-18, with most having a Romeo and Juliet sort of provision that pushes it lower in certain circumstances. As for Canada, "The Tackling Violent Crime Act took effect on 1 May 2008, raising the age of consent to 16 from 14."




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^but younger have less experience
So? All she has to do is do as I tell her.
 

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****ed a 40ish woman once (she was fit though) just to try it out @ 24. Wouldn't do it again, the older woman thing is a little overhyped imo but if you got a fantasy about it then go for it and try it out and at least you can say that you tried it.
 

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When I was 19 I ****ed a woman who was 33 doing her PHD at Yale
 

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I f**ked a realtor who was 51 and I was 20. All because of that show Deal or No Deal. And she must've done this cuz her daughter wouldn't be interested in me unless I had 6 figures on me. 6 feet didn't matter to her.

I even f**ked one of my neighbors who was oh so fine and at age 41 when I was 18. She waited until the house was to herself, despite the fact she was staying directly across the street from me.

Here's the bottom skinny, age don't make a difference.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I was 25 I dated a women of 35 for 3 years. Hot, very hot...! When I was 29 I had one of 24. A very good surprise (sexually)...
 
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