"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's the most romantic thing you've done for a girl?

REd-xL

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I've spent the last 5 years meandering from girl to girl on almost a weekly basis, so I haven't really had the opportunity to let my romance bloom.

My top story dates back to highschool: I grabbed my girlfriend at school by her locker, spun her around, and made out with her. I had a ring inside my mouth I noticed her eying the day before when we were at the mall. I went back and got it just to surprise her, and she loved it.

Bah, that sounds really lame in retrospect.

I'm sure you guys can top it; let's have it.

~Rx

P.S. I recently wrote about several sexual exploits I've had over the course of the last year, so check out the last dozen or so entries in my journal if that tickles your fancy. You might learn a thing or two about picking up girls along the way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kissed a girl passionately while she had my *** on her lips/in her mouth.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Kissed a girl passionately while she had my *** on her lips/in her mouth.
Joking or not, girls actually really dig that sh!t. Swallowing is already such a hassle that if you don't mind kissing them right after, they take it as a sign of respect.
 

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It was one for my x's birthdays, I had done some research thru her friends and family as to what a list of some of her favorite songs were. I put together a cd of these songs (mostly slow) and on the night of her birthday, I drove out to a local park (not many people are ever at this park after 9pm) thats on the water front. I pulled my car up next to the pavillion, popped my trunk, put the cd in my player and turned it up. She was waiting for me at the pavillion while I was putting the music on. I joined her and we danced for a couple hours. She didn't stop crying she loved it so much.
 

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Originally posted by REd-xL
Joking or not, girls actually really dig that sh!t. Swallowing is already such a hassle that if you don't mind kissing them right after, they take it as a sign of respect.
I wasn't joking. That's the nicest thing I've ever done to a girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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