What's the most number of kids you would put up with with a single mommy?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

logicallefty

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May 18, 2014

I always look more at the relationship the kid(s) have with dad, how the kid(s) act, and how mommy treats them. Woman I am with now has 3 kids, one adult and two still in school. But me and their dad have been friends for over 20 years so it's kind of a different thing. I know he isn't going to vanish from their lives and/or give me any cr@p what so ever. Woman hates it that he and I are still friends, but she will get over it.