"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats the Most heart wrenching pics you ever seen

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you want GUT WRETCHING try looking for Two Girls, One Cup- that's currently the most disgusting, gnarliest video on the internet.

Even shock-proof Joe Rogan had a hard time watching it!

WARNING- Not for the faint-hearted.
 

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On the beach in Surfer´s, Australia.. Little japanese guy, about 5 or 6 y.o., standing beside his parents, both all bloated and shYt from water, both drowned trying to pull him out of the 3 m high waves. Paramedics worked at them for qute some time, but...
Picture from hell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I did some searching on that Skel and it seems it probably is true.

What I found said a young photographer taking pictures regarding the famine in Sudan won a Pulitzer prize or something for it and then a few months later he became despondent and committed suicide.

Just goes to show if you aren't mentally hardened and gaze into the abyss straight away it will consume you.

The guy in my guess was simply too young and probably had not had enough life experience and familiarity with real life horrors to be properly desensitized to this stuff for his own mental survival.

Anyway as for the most heart wrenching pictures I've ever seen well one is real and one is from a movie.

1. JFK autopsy photos.

2. The famous scene from Platoon where Elias gets gunned down by the VC and has his arms up in the air looking to be saved.
 

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i think when they say heart wrenching they don't mean disgusting.

in the early part of the war, when the terrorists' first video of cutting someones head off... i watched that. 'heart' wrenching and pretty gut wrenching also.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skel said:
dont know if this is true but from what I have heard the person who photographed this commited suicide a few months after this photo hit the front page of, I think it was national geographic or something like that.

The kid in the photo was walking to a town a few miles away for food but never made it.
33 year old Kevin Carter was his name. Tragic story.
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rudra said:
On the beach in Surfer´s, Australia.. Little japanese guy, about 5 or 6 y.o., standing beside his parents, both all bloated and shYt from water, both drowned trying to pull him out of the 3 m high waves. Paramedics worked at them for qute some time, but...
Picture from hell.
Really?

I used to live there... It's a pretty wicked beach, soo many lifeguards.

I guess **** happens tho, eh?
 

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Quiksilver said:
Really?

I used to live there... It's a pretty wicked beach, soo many lifeguards.

I guess **** happens tho, eh?
Yup. Went to TSS for a year back in the day. BTW remember three guys from Toronto there)
But the surf... wicked, yeah. Lucky I got away, I and those dudes where swimming some 100 meters away when this whole shyt went down.
 

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Most of these pictures here are really heart wrenching, but that 9/11 picture with the guy jumping out of the WTC made me laugh. Maybe because I have a morbid humour. Thanks I needed that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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