"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what's the m ost AFC thing you have ever witnessed firsthand?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Desdinova
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This guy would constantly phone my woman and threaten suicide. She'd ask him if there was anything she could do to help him kill himself. :crackup:
Last time she heard from him, he apparently had one of his testicles removed because of cancer. I guess he was looking for pity.
I'm not attracted to people with dark skin. Does that make me racist?
I don't even like tans too much.
I don't like too pale either though. Do i hate red haired people?
Kalel21
Don Juan
This is ofcourse before I became a learning PUA.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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And, I'm smiling a whole lot more. Not only does it make you look better, it makes you FEEL better. Just by smiling.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
tryin 2 play
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We were both 18 years old. She was veryyyy dramatic I think due to her up bringing. One night I was out with some freinds and on the phone with her. We were arguing and she got hysterical for no reason at all. Her mom then says tell him to get over here now or I will break you 2 up. I left my friends and went!! If that happened now I would say tell your mom to fvck herself.
She got sick one night. I went to her house at 1 in the morning because she called me. I had to be up the next morning at 6 and she knew this! I drove home at 2 to get 4 hours of sleep. We broke up about 1 month later!! I have learned now though and will never let that sh!t happen again.
That's great. I'm not terribly attracted to girls with dark skin or tans either.
I'm not even gonna get into the ins and outs of this. Trust me, he's racist.
But anyway, I think he got into some trouble over this, again. This time, the girl that works there called off the other day. He punched her in when she was supposed to start, and punched her out when she was supposed to be done. The owner came in and decided to watch the tapes (totally random), and noticed that she wasn't there on the tape. He questioned the guy about this and he just went, "Uhh... uhh....uhh....". Then the other manager got in his face and asked him if he was "obsessed with her, or in love with her", and he literally went limp. :crackup:
I missed the time when her father came in and told him to stay away from her. I heard he was a wreck.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.