"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what's the m ost AFC thing you have ever witnessed firsthand?
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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This guy would constantly phone my woman and threaten suicide. She'd ask him if there was anything she could do to help him kill himself. :crackup:
Last time she heard from him, he apparently had one of his testicles removed because of cancer. I guess he was looking for pity.
I'm not attracted to people with dark skin. Does that make me racist?
I don't even like tans too much.
I don't like too pale either though. Do i hate red haired people?
Kalel21
Don Juan
This is ofcourse before I became a learning PUA.
The Nice Guy is Gone
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And, I'm smiling a whole lot more. Not only does it make you look better, it makes you FEEL better. Just by smiling.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
tryin 2 play
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We were both 18 years old. She was veryyyy dramatic I think due to her up bringing. One night I was out with some freinds and on the phone with her. We were arguing and she got hysterical for no reason at all. Her mom then says tell him to get over here now or I will break you 2 up. I left my friends and went!! If that happened now I would say tell your mom to fvck herself.
She got sick one night. I went to her house at 1 in the morning because she called me. I had to be up the next morning at 6 and she knew this! I drove home at 2 to get 4 hours of sleep. We broke up about 1 month later!! I have learned now though and will never let that sh!t happen again.
That's great. I'm not terribly attracted to girls with dark skin or tans either.
I'm not even gonna get into the ins and outs of this. Trust me, he's racist.
But anyway, I think he got into some trouble over this, again. This time, the girl that works there called off the other day. He punched her in when she was supposed to start, and punched her out when she was supposed to be done. The owner came in and decided to watch the tapes (totally random), and noticed that she wasn't there on the tape. He questioned the guy about this and he just went, "Uhh... uhh....uhh....". Then the other manager got in his face and asked him if he was "obsessed with her, or in love with her", and he literally went limp. :crackup:
I missed the time when her father came in and told him to stay away from her. I heard he was a wreck.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.