"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what's the m ost AFC thing you have ever witnessed firsthand?
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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This guy would constantly phone my woman and threaten suicide. She'd ask him if there was anything she could do to help him kill himself. :crackup:
Last time she heard from him, he apparently had one of his testicles removed because of cancer. I guess he was looking for pity.
I'm not attracted to people with dark skin. Does that make me racist?
I don't even like tans too much.
I don't like too pale either though. Do i hate red haired people?
Kalel21
Don Juan
This is ofcourse before I became a learning PUA.
The Nice Guy is Gone
Senior Don Juan
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And, I'm smiling a whole lot more. Not only does it make you look better, it makes you FEEL better. Just by smiling.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tryin 2 play
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We were both 18 years old. She was veryyyy dramatic I think due to her up bringing. One night I was out with some freinds and on the phone with her. We were arguing and she got hysterical for no reason at all. Her mom then says tell him to get over here now or I will break you 2 up. I left my friends and went!! If that happened now I would say tell your mom to fvck herself.
She got sick one night. I went to her house at 1 in the morning because she called me. I had to be up the next morning at 6 and she knew this! I drove home at 2 to get 4 hours of sleep. We broke up about 1 month later!! I have learned now though and will never let that sh!t happen again.
That's great. I'm not terribly attracted to girls with dark skin or tans either.
I'm not even gonna get into the ins and outs of this. Trust me, he's racist.
But anyway, I think he got into some trouble over this, again. This time, the girl that works there called off the other day. He punched her in when she was supposed to start, and punched her out when she was supposed to be done. The owner came in and decided to watch the tapes (totally random), and noticed that she wasn't there on the tape. He questioned the guy about this and he just went, "Uhh... uhh....uhh....". Then the other manager got in his face and asked him if he was "obsessed with her, or in love with her", and he literally went limp. :crackup:
I missed the time when her father came in and told him to stay away from her. I heard he was a wreck.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.