What's the longest you've been single?

[phil2015]

Hey

I'm curious, what's the longest period of time you DJs have been single for?

After what I've just come out of I'm thinkin of focussing on myself for a while and my purpose

 

[Jetleg]

Probably my whole life.

 

[Infern0]

When i was AFC, from 17-22 so 5 years.

 

[AlphaNate]

After what I've just come out of I'm thinkin of focussing on myself for a while and my purpose

Careful, that's when you land all the hotties.

 

[sazc]

sometimes being single is a choice, because you are waiting for someone of quality (however you define that) to appear

 

[lizardking82]

My first relationship was when I was 16 with an 18 year old girl, lasted 1 year approx. Then I was single for about 2 months, next relationship started after that, lasted 1 year and a half. Then I was single but spinning and ****ed at least 4 different girls in between Albania and Greece until I met my last girlfriend, the one that burned my heart LOL spinned plates while with her, too. All in all, I would say the longest has been 4-5 months, but there were always several girls in the panorama.

 

[Krueg]

Longest Ive been single (No dates or sex) 2 years. Gave me time to focus and improve myself. Next thing you know I got three girlfriends And the cycle starts again

 

[Roober]

Now... So 5 months and counting... Although I think my main plate thinks were a couple

 

[Skyline]

3 years ago I decided to follow Anti Dump machines' advice on filtering out women based on interest. It's worked for the most part but I'm going on 4 years single.

I've had some decent quality girls come to me but I didn't connect with any of them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

3 years ago I decided to follow Anti Dump machines' advice on filtering out women based on interest. It's worked for the most part but I'm going on 4 years single.

I've had some decent quality girls come to me but I didn't connect with any of them.

But with that system you didn't waste a lot of time on females who were wasting your time due to low interest.

 

[bigneil]

6 months ago today I woke up and thanked God for the gorgeous woman that I made love to the night before, on our first date. That snapped an 8 month drought for me, and we are still going strong. Perhaps not coincidentally, during the past 6 months I maintained two jobs for the whole time, even working a third for over a month. I earned the most I ever earned in a 6 month period, taking home over $200,000.

Be willing to be single but always strive for your dream girl and know that it can happen. In the meantime you must focus on self improvement, especially in your career. Note she didn't appear in a vacuum. I had about 10 women give me their phone numbers in a 2 weeks span and I chose the one I loved the most and it payed off. One by one she defeated all the other girls and of course none of them will ever date me now (they want to be the best girl in the world letalone the best girl in the room that night).

In the past I went nearly 2 years without having sex (the years 1992 and 2002 featured no sex for me). It's worth noting that in 1993 and 2003 I snapped those droughts with two of the most gorgeous women I ever had sex with (now a trend).

 

[Glassguy]

I've been "single" for over a year. I spin many a plate and still get laid very often

 

[Skyline]

But with that system you didn't waste a lot of time on females who were wasting your time due to low interest.

That is true. It's kind of nice because I know right away what category to put a girl in. It's usually a lay, friends, or acquaintances.

The high interest girls aren't bad either. They generally all have the same low maintenance background.

 

[wifehunter]

17 years and counting.

 

[ubercat]

Six months was my longest self imposed dry spell. I kinda miss it.

 

[Killakittie]

I'm 32 and since high school the longest i have been single is about one month. I am really trying to be single for at least a couple years but i always run into the coolest women and it kinda sucks lol

 

[NSX-R]

how do you define single?

 

[Killakittie]

I am talking about being in a LTR. I went from one right to another for over a decade averaging about 2-4 years each.

 

[wifehunter]

how do you define single?

I know, right?

I'm seeing two plates at the moment...how to categorize?

 

[In2theGame]

I had a 4 year relationship from age 18 - 22 but drove me insane and cheated on me twice. Then met another girl who we both fell in love and couldnt get enough of each other. Fast forward 5 years age 22 - 26, She one day decided she wanted to break up and a month later was engaged and getting married to another guy. I have now been single for 7 years and I have gotten in shape to 10% bodyfat muscular, Learned and started a business and have been with close to 70 women. Being single and an unchained Man is what its about. I have cooled off and focused more on my Money so i dont go out as much to pick up Women however i still do from time to time with friends. Im currently seeing 2 Women and have 3 prospects in the background. Today I was approached on the train and she gave me her number before she got off and told me to call her sometimes. So..... Another prospect. Being single and free has taught me that Women bring you down in an LTR and you become emasculated. If you get involved in another LTR, I HIGHLY advise to have 0 tolerance for BS.