HowardHughesDicaprio
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is there a difference?
does one do better with women than the other?
does one do better with women than the other?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Whats the difference between being a good looking guy vs being a "prettyboy"?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonGorgon
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good is how AFC you cat
pretty is effeminate looks in a man that women find cute and pretty
pretty is effeminate looks in a man that women find cute and pretty
SgtSplacker
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To me a pretty boy has abs, wears jewlery, manscapes, frequent haircuts, all new clothes, nice shoes, is generally very concerned with his appearance almost to the point of being a bit feminine or is definitely metro.
A handsome dude to me is just a good looking guy with decent clothes.
A handsome dude to me is just a good looking guy with decent clothes.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
http://i.imgur.com/AjZufMa.jpg - Bad boy good looking guy
http://i.imgur.com/2yVJEvh.jpg - Preppy "Pretty Boy" Good looking guy
I would view this a slight differently as Good looking hot guy vs Pretty boy good looking guy that Women find attractive. Guy one looks more bad boy type, He's not smiling, Hes muscular and looks like he's a "serious" no bullsh!t type of guy. The second guy would be classified as good looking but "non threatening" look and "preppy" or "pretty boy" Safe guy. Women tastes vary but personally I fall into the first guys looks and the women i attract are usually the very confident types who feel they arent "insecure" however these women are usually trouble and full of drama. Some women prefer the softer looking gentle type who has an attractive man but doesnt look like he would be a threat. Overall i dont care what women say... Guy #1 is what all women deep down want because went it comes down to it, Females want a man that looks powerful with strength and can practically pull her hair and demolish her in bed. throw her b!tchy azz a beating bent over. Thats why many have rape fantasies.
http://i.imgur.com/2yVJEvh.jpg - Preppy "Pretty Boy" Good looking guy
I would view this a slight differently as Good looking hot guy vs Pretty boy good looking guy that Women find attractive. Guy one looks more bad boy type, He's not smiling, Hes muscular and looks like he's a "serious" no bullsh!t type of guy. The second guy would be classified as good looking but "non threatening" look and "preppy" or "pretty boy" Safe guy. Women tastes vary but personally I fall into the first guys looks and the women i attract are usually the very confident types who feel they arent "insecure" however these women are usually trouble and full of drama. Some women prefer the softer looking gentle type who has an attractive man but doesnt look like he would be a threat. Overall i dont care what women say... Guy #1 is what all women deep down want because went it comes down to it, Females want a man that looks powerful with strength and can practically pull her hair and demolish her in bed. throw her b!tchy azz a beating bent over. Thats why many have rape fantasies.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.