"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whats the difference between being a good looking guy vs being a "prettyboy"?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good looking: Jon Hamm
Pretty Boy: Jared Leto
 

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To me a pretty boy has abs, wears jewlery, manscapes, frequent haircuts, all new clothes, nice shoes, is generally very concerned with his appearance almost to the point of being a bit feminine or is definitely metro.

A handsome dude to me is just a good looking guy with decent clothes.
 

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http://i.imgur.com/AjZufMa.jpg - Bad boy good looking guy
http://i.imgur.com/2yVJEvh.jpg - Preppy "Pretty Boy" Good looking guy

I would view this a slight differently as Good looking hot guy vs Pretty boy good looking guy that Women find attractive. Guy one looks more bad boy type, He's not smiling, Hes muscular and looks like he's a "serious" no bullsh!t type of guy. The second guy would be classified as good looking but "non threatening" look and "preppy" or "pretty boy" Safe guy. Women tastes vary but personally I fall into the first guys looks and the women i attract are usually the very confident types who feel they arent "insecure" however these women are usually trouble and full of drama. Some women prefer the softer looking gentle type who has an attractive man but doesnt look like he would be a threat. Overall i dont care what women say... Guy #1 is what all women deep down want because went it comes down to it, Females want a man that looks powerful with strength and can practically pull her hair and demolish her in bed. throw her b!tchy azz a beating bent over. Thats why many have rape fantasies.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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