"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats the difference between a Dj and a Pua?

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Hi guys, well it seems like we started with the wrong foot. I found this place looking for pook, i have a message for him. But i kinda like it here. I belong to a secret latin community in spain. Yet i never felt myself like a Pua, i always sensed im more natural than that. I have 6 years now playing in the field and my own methods. But i dont consider myself a master. I never will.

What make me curious is the "dj" concept. What does it mean for the world? what does it mean to you? It seems different...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This isn't textbook. 'dj' is just 'man' or whatnot. Nothing 'technical' going on in the mind of a DJ.
 
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For the world it means i'm a womanizer.

For me it means living up to my own potential.
 
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Being a DJ has nothing to do with women and everything to do with yourself.
Being a PUA has EVERYTHING to do with women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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other than guys defining labels to make themselves feel special, there is no difference

this site is just as preoccupied with pvssy as any pua forum

and there are "puas" out there who've achieved a higher level of self-actualization than self-proclaimed "dj's" on this site
 
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thats because this site isn't full of DJs. I see a lot of PUA stuff here and it's kinda pointless but whatever. :p
Anyways, one cannot say James Bond is a PUA. Definitely not.
 
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Interesting. So a pua only focus on techniques for getting woman, and a dj focus on himself to get the woman.
 
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spainlover said:
Interesting. So a pua only focus on techniques for getting woman, and a dj focus on himself to get the woman.
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Exactly. Also, a true DJ has women coming to him. While a PUA has to go to them.
 
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