"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whats the difference between a Dj and a Pua?

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Hi guys, well it seems like we started with the wrong foot. I found this place looking for pook, i have a message for him. But i kinda like it here. I belong to a secret latin community in spain. Yet i never felt myself like a Pua, i always sensed im more natural than that. I have 6 years now playing in the field and my own methods. But i dont consider myself a master. I never will.

What make me curious is the "dj" concept. What does it mean for the world? what does it mean to you? It seems different...

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This isn't textbook. 'dj' is just 'man' or whatnot. Nothing 'technical' going on in the mind of a DJ.
 
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For the world it means i'm a womanizer.

For me it means living up to my own potential.
 
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Being a DJ has nothing to do with women and everything to do with yourself.
Being a PUA has EVERYTHING to do with women.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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other than guys defining labels to make themselves feel special, there is no difference

this site is just as preoccupied with pvssy as any pua forum

and there are "puas" out there who've achieved a higher level of self-actualization than self-proclaimed "dj's" on this site
 
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thats because this site isn't full of DJs. I see a lot of PUA stuff here and it's kinda pointless but whatever. :p
Anyways, one cannot say James Bond is a PUA. Definitely not.
 
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Interesting. So a pua only focus on techniques for getting woman, and a dj focus on himself to get the woman.
 
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spainlover said:
Interesting. So a pua only focus on techniques for getting woman, and a dj focus on himself to get the woman.
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Exactly. Also, a true DJ has women coming to him. While a PUA has to go to them.
 
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