"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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somewhatsuave

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Yo I jus have a 2 quick questions- 1) is there n e difference in a don juan and a player and 2) is it better to hold the stare till the chick breaks it or hold it for like 3 seconds then smile n look away
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shydude

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Hmmmm player is the guy that scores chiks without banging em.. Don Juan is the guy that bangs chiks without liking em.. I am both.. OK jk lol.. And never look AWAY when a girl is staring(its a sign that u r not interested) Smile to her and approach her if u can, And YES if she is UGLY then just show her the middle finger.. :D good luck
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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applaya

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shydude, you offer some terrible advice on here. I hope nobody actually follows it.
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol^^^

lets stop posting for a while "shydude"


anyways
1. A playa is someone who doesnt care about women and is about sleeping with women by any means neccesary. Whether it is lies, bragging, or killing a best friend (overexaggeration but you get the point)
A Dj is someone who loves women and himself.
2. Either or would work. Sometimes you want to hold EC, but sometimes you give off the creepy stalker vibe. Just play it by ear each time. If it is one of those soul gazing stares I hold EC, but with just a looking around the room stare I hold for 2-3 seconds
 
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