"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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somewhatsuave

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Yo I jus have a 2 quick questions- 1) is there n e difference in a don juan and a player and 2) is it better to hold the stare till the chick breaks it or hold it for like 3 seconds then smile n look away
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shydude

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Hmmmm player is the guy that scores chiks without banging em.. Don Juan is the guy that bangs chiks without liking em.. I am both.. OK jk lol.. And never look AWAY when a girl is staring(its a sign that u r not interested) Smile to her and approach her if u can, And YES if she is UGLY then just show her the middle finger.. :D good luck
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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applaya

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shydude, you offer some terrible advice on here. I hope nobody actually follows it.
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol^^^

lets stop posting for a while "shydude"


anyways
1. A playa is someone who doesnt care about women and is about sleeping with women by any means neccesary. Whether it is lies, bragging, or killing a best friend (overexaggeration but you get the point)
A Dj is someone who loves women and himself.
2. Either or would work. Sometimes you want to hold EC, but sometimes you give off the creepy stalker vibe. Just play it by ear each time. If it is one of those soul gazing stares I hold EC, but with just a looking around the room stare I hold for 2-3 seconds
 
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