"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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somewhatsuave

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Yo I jus have a 2 quick questions- 1) is there n e difference in a don juan and a player and 2) is it better to hold the stare till the chick breaks it or hold it for like 3 seconds then smile n look away
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shydude

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Hmmmm player is the guy that scores chiks without banging em.. Don Juan is the guy that bangs chiks without liking em.. I am both.. OK jk lol.. And never look AWAY when a girl is staring(its a sign that u r not interested) Smile to her and approach her if u can, And YES if she is UGLY then just show her the middle finger.. :D good luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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applaya

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shydude, you offer some terrible advice on here. I hope nobody actually follows it.
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol^^^

lets stop posting for a while "shydude"


anyways
1. A playa is someone who doesnt care about women and is about sleeping with women by any means neccesary. Whether it is lies, bragging, or killing a best friend (overexaggeration but you get the point)
A Dj is someone who loves women and himself.
2. Either or would work. Sometimes you want to hold EC, but sometimes you give off the creepy stalker vibe. Just play it by ear each time. If it is one of those soul gazing stares I hold EC, but with just a looking around the room stare I hold for 2-3 seconds
 
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