"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glassguy

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After a little thought, this is what I would do:

1.) Give her the chance to put your shyte in a box and pick it up. Drive by at the time you say youll be there and its either there or not.

2.) If its not there, go buy new tickets that are better seats. Text her to enjoy the concert because you bought better seats to take your new friend. Take a buddy and not some new chick you just smashed. You're too relationshippy. Concert tickets, vacations, flowers, etc are for girlfriends. This one is not your girlfriend.

I always make better decisions after putting a little logical thinking into it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Roober

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Its 2018. There's a very good chance you can reprint the tickets. Check that first. One of my side hustles is ticket brokering, and it is very easy to do.

And agreed with @Glassguy . Do not take another girl. Find a buddy! Just make a rule to keep $hit very minimal the first couple months. You smashed this girl once and your taking her to a concert? Is she paying?
 

Ryan Adams

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these tickets were 150 bucks each.... the ghoster chick runs and hides from me in public because she is immature even though she's 29.... she wont be going to the concert but she damn sure ain't gonna answer

ok I alsed my buddy to go. but tickets might be sold out
 
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flowtheory

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Why on earth are your tickets at her place?

You likely will not get the tix back in a ‘by the book fashion’. Police won’t care if you live in a bigger city, she clearly doesn’t, her friend doesn’t, you’re hooped.

However *puts on shades*
There’s always other options to get what’s yours back; but you may not like it.
 

Ryan Adams

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I'm doing anything illegal. fvck it she can have them.

I live in a small town
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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