"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's the deal with this random chick acting so cold towards me,, awkward.

MountainSlide

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Ok so there is this girl that works at the gym I go to and I don't really bother talking to her very much because she is really cold and seems kind of rude. Like she has no ****ing manners and she looks at me like I am some sort of piece of **** every time I walk through the door. But she's talking to other people like it's all good. What would cause a random *****, that's supposed to be working to serve me, act like such a weirdo?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Museite

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Perhaps you remind her of something, or maybe you even did something inadvertent to her that p1ssed her off or any of the multitude of things that could cause a woman to act like a moron.

Either way just DGAS, be as polite as you can without kissing her ass and just get on with your business without a second thought.
 

mangotot

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Its bad customer service for sure. If it bothers you so much, have a word with the managers, it can perhaps shock her into perking up.
 

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Girls with b!tch-face are never worth it, just phase that woman out completely and pretend she doesn't exist and keep doing what you're doing.
 

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I'm going through a similar situation right now. Don't worry about it. They're just miserable. Don't let their misery affect you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3agle 3yes

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MountainSlide and SeymourCake take my advice.

Whenever a woman behaves a certain way towards you personally (especially if it's negative) for no reason, always assume it's because she's attracted to you.

Mock her attitude.

Sarcasm is powerful in situations like this. Tell her why does she always smile when she sees you, invade her personal space and in general be a pest by asking her random questions.

The average woman is never to be taken seriously.
 

marmel75

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I love the women with attitudes cause I try and bang it right out of them
 

asa_don

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who cares, not every woman is a pleasant person, not every one will like you, just consider the source.
 
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