"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's the deal with the mods?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: What's the deal with the mods?

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
They started slightly before that. Although it wasn't until I started getting immature that I got the job.

bah! im taking all the credit fer yer promotion..hehe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh let the mods play. Let them romp and frolic like little impish elves in the forest, sprinkling pixie dust hither and yon... :p
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Oh let the mods play. Let them romp and frolic like little impish elves in the forest, sprinkling pixie dust hither and yon... :p
Um, yeah...What he said.
 

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
There we go. And who says that nothing ever comes from posting in the suggestion and feedback forum? Maybe I should post a new forum idea now...
No no no. no more ideas for forums. If you do I will sick Vincent on you!!!:D :D :D
 
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