"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's the deal? Something I've been running into lately

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Now that I'm at a higher confidence level than I previously was with girls I noticed I'm more naturally C+F and indifferent which makes me say/take riskier actions.

Along with this I've noticed about 7 out of 10 girls will say "you're too much" "you're a handful" "you're exhausting" in a I'm having fun inflection but! At the same time I find that it's almost intimidating to them and only small rare percent of girls will respond and play along.

I'm wondering if my new vibe is automatically screening ones who are on my level or if I'm scaring most girls off by not being so "average"?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lack of calibration with less secure girls. You should match their level of energy after first contact.
 
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I could but I think I like how it filters out insecure girls. Always liked me confident ones
 
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You could miss out on some of the good ones in there too. Its easy to over-game sometimes, plus you should be able to show the genuine vulnerable side of you sometimes as well. Its about the people skills and being able to relate to them. I kinda learned this the hard way, because I say whatever that comes to my head.

people skills + your crazy personality = popularity
 
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