"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's the deal? Something I've been running into lately

tryst type

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Now that I'm at a higher confidence level than I previously was with girls I noticed I'm more naturally C+F and indifferent which makes me say/take riskier actions.

Along with this I've noticed about 7 out of 10 girls will say "you're too much" "you're a handful" "you're exhausting" in a I'm having fun inflection but! At the same time I find that it's almost intimidating to them and only small rare percent of girls will respond and play along.

I'm wondering if my new vibe is automatically screening ones who are on my level or if I'm scaring most girls off by not being so "average"?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lack of calibration with less secure girls. You should match their level of energy after first contact.
 

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I could but I think I like how it filters out insecure girls. Always liked me confident ones
 

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You could miss out on some of the good ones in there too. Its easy to over-game sometimes, plus you should be able to show the genuine vulnerable side of you sometimes as well. Its about the people skills and being able to relate to them. I kinda learned this the hard way, because I say whatever that comes to my head.

people skills + your crazy personality = popularity
 
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