What's the deal? Something I've been running into lately

[tryst type]

Now that I'm at a higher confidence level than I previously was with girls I noticed I'm more naturally C+F and indifferent which makes me say/take riskier actions.

Along with this I've noticed about 7 out of 10 girls will say "you're too much" "you're a handful" "you're exhausting" in a I'm having fun inflection but! At the same time I find that it's almost intimidating to them and only small rare percent of girls will respond and play along.

I'm wondering if my new vibe is automatically screening ones who are on my level or if I'm scaring most girls off by not being so "average"?

 

[PapiChulo]

Lack of calibration with less secure girls. You should match their level of energy after first contact.

 

[tryst type]

I could but I think I like how it filters out insecure girls. Always liked me confident ones

 

[PapiChulo]

You could miss out on some of the good ones in there too. Its easy to over-game sometimes, plus you should be able to show the genuine vulnerable side of you sometimes as well. Its about the people skills and being able to relate to them. I kinda learned this the hard way, because I say whatever that comes to my head.

people skills + your crazy personality = popularity