Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

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what's the best way to snap out of oneitis

dre007

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what are some of the best ways to snap out of oneitis so you don't freak out girls if you are getting oneitis from them. I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That is the best method, can be more simpler than that you can meditate and keep your mind busy such as doig yoga, kickboxin and etc na mean man? From my experience its keeping ur mind occupied and fucin a buncha other hoes :) there are 3 billion girls and 28,526 days 2 live GET BUSY!
 

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busy man stay busy,

i had a reality check the other day when i pmed my ex cuz i was reminiscing memories from back then, she didnt reply back so that got me back on track

oneitis doesnt do anything but bring u back and blinds ur view.
stay busy it helps ALOT
 

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oneitis is a ***** and ive got a dose of it right now myself :(
 

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Yup stay busy and keep your mind occupied. If your mind isn't busy, it will default back to your oneitis.

Probably the best way to loose your oneitis is to get a rejection from her. Oneitis lives on because at some level you believe that you can get her. Once you realize that there is no hope, the oneitis should leave you soon after. Good luck on that though. I haven't been able to ask out my oneitis because I know she isn't into me and I know she will say no. But some part of me still thinks I can get her :rolleyes:

Here's a stupid question.
Is there any way to let a girl know that you like her and that you would like to go out with her when her current relationship ends? Obviously I can't give her my card and tell her to call me when her boyfriend cheats. But is there any way to do something like that?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?

Talk? You mean fvck. And go for at least 3-4 instead of just two.
 
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I wish I had "One-itis" - it is better than No-itis! These Hos just don't itis me!
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?

Talk? You mean fvck. And go for at least 3-4 instead of just two.

Exactly. That's the only way. I have a gf and I'm still making dates with other girls.

Granted we're not in the same city, but still.
 

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BB is right. THE BEST way to get over oneitis is f*cking other chicks.


Even women know this from their side:
______"How do you get over a man?
______"Get under another one."

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Thanks guys, i've also been suffering from a case of one-itis from this HB9 Little Miss Sunshine throwing IOIs to me in some of my classes...

I'm going to try to keep as busy as possible and try to get over this.

God, it's like a disease :(
 
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