"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what's the best way to snap out of oneitis

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what are some of the best ways to snap out of oneitis so you don't freak out girls if you are getting oneitis from them. I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That is the best method, can be more simpler than that you can meditate and keep your mind busy such as doig yoga, kickboxin and etc na mean man? From my experience its keeping ur mind occupied and fucin a buncha other hoes :) there are 3 billion girls and 28,526 days 2 live GET BUSY!
 

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busy man stay busy,

i had a reality check the other day when i pmed my ex cuz i was reminiscing memories from back then, she didnt reply back so that got me back on track

oneitis doesnt do anything but bring u back and blinds ur view.
stay busy it helps ALOT
 

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oneitis is a ***** and ive got a dose of it right now myself :(
 

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Yup stay busy and keep your mind occupied. If your mind isn't busy, it will default back to your oneitis.

Probably the best way to loose your oneitis is to get a rejection from her. Oneitis lives on because at some level you believe that you can get her. Once you realize that there is no hope, the oneitis should leave you soon after. Good luck on that though. I haven't been able to ask out my oneitis because I know she isn't into me and I know she will say no. But some part of me still thinks I can get her :rolleyes:

Here's a stupid question.
Is there any way to let a girl know that you like her and that you would like to go out with her when her current relationship ends? Obviously I can't give her my card and tell her to call me when her boyfriend cheats. But is there any way to do something like that?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?

Talk? You mean fvck. And go for at least 3-4 instead of just two.
 
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I wish I had "One-itis" - it is better than No-itis! These Hos just don't itis me!
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I know some of the ways are like, talk 2 other women etc. but what are the best methods?

Talk? You mean fvck. And go for at least 3-4 instead of just two.

Exactly. That's the only way. I have a gf and I'm still making dates with other girls.

Granted we're not in the same city, but still.
 

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BB is right. THE BEST way to get over oneitis is f*cking other chicks.


Even women know this from their side:
______"How do you get over a man?
______"Get under another one."

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SPIN MORE PLATES!!!

go to the search button and type in PLATE THEORY by rollo
READ IT
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks guys, i've also been suffering from a case of one-itis from this HB9 Little Miss Sunshine throwing IOIs to me in some of my classes...

I'm going to try to keep as busy as possible and try to get over this.

God, it's like a disease :(
 
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