What's the best way to nuke a woman's hamster?

[marmel75]

Bang her best friend.

 

[El Payaso]

I get it man, your ego is hurt. But what’s the point? You wanna get back at her cause she made you feel like less than first place? Who cares

You know what my dilemmas are these days? “Should I go further with this girl or not?”
You know why? Because I’m not a psychopath. And I know exactly what happens when girls start falling for you but you’re really not into them like that. I can’t tell you how shltty I feel when I get s girl to start falling and then just back way the fvck off. It goes from bringing out the best in them to watching them grow resentful, disappointed and sad.

Don’t try to get back at her, just be cool about it, bang her to get it out of your system if possible and keep it moving. Otherwise if you were seeing enough women and vetting for the right ones, you’d be too focused on other things than some girl who missed her shot with you

My ego isn't hurt. She was just a waste of time and a flaking tease. Call me hurt or whatever you want, I don't really care. I would like to give her a taste of her own medicine so in the future she learns not to water people's time.

 

[ubercat]

Hmm I'm not sure sex-starved = stressed. In the 6 months I consciously took off woman I was eating better sleeping better, working out more and generally kicking goals. Obviously that is an age and experience thing. You've had enough Priors that you know you can easily hop back on the bike.

 

[TheProspect]

My ego isn't hurt.

I would like to give her a taste of her own medicine so in the future she learns not to water people's time.

Your intention likely isn't to give her a life lesson because you generally care about her becoming a better person, it's probably more centred on an "eye for an eye" mentality because of the negative emotions she triggered in you, regardless of subtle they may have been.

It's not necessarily wrong to have the impulse to do what you said. I'd say nearly everyone on this board, including myself, would feel the same urge if put in the same situation.

Naturally, if someone slapped you you'll likely want to slap them back. If someone insulted you, you'll likely have the urge to say something back. But when you slap or insult someone in return, you don't do it with the intention for constructive learning to take place for their benefit. And in your case, enough time has passed by that your reaction is not immediate reciprocation, instead it is calculated and planned.

Your intentions then seem to be to deliberately upset her, to give her "a taste of her own medicine"... Which begs the question, "Why?"

I assume it's not because you have the heart of a teacher, but it's more likely because she hurt you or bruised your ego.

The point of my reply is not to tell you what you should or should't do, what you do or don't feel, but to share my observation that I hope can add perspective and insight to your interactions and intentions, in order to help you do what is best for you and your growth.

 

[Reykhel]

Hahaha quote of the year!

What year? 1987?

 

[Spidah]

My ego isn't hurt. She was just a waste of time and a flaking tease. Call me hurt or whatever you want, I don't really care. I would like to give her a taste of her own medicine so in the future she learns not to water people's time.

Of course you ain't hurt. The weak ass betas on this site are hurt.

Men need to start putting bitches in their place again. And its easy too. Just gotta grow balls and lose the scarcity mentality.

The fear of losing a bytch is what keeps beta males up at night. That's why they're weak as fuk and get bitched by women all day every day.

 

[flowtheory]

What year? 1987?

It’s not the anti woman part. It’s the asking the salmon how to fish part. It’s hilarious.

 

[Reykhel]

t’s not the anti woman part

Christ no, that's not what i meant. I meant it was like common knowledge.

 

[flowtheory]

Christ no, that's not what i meant. I meant it was like common knowledge.

Still funny!

 

[AJ84]

If I remember correctly, one of the first exchanges I had with you since coming back, was on this very topic (when I thought you were a guy) and I tried to explain the difference in libidos between men and women

It still amazes me how utterly clueless women are when it comes to how important sex is for men.

I’m not saying none of the stuff you’re saying is wrong, I’m just saying it’s pointless to men. The end goal for us sex. Everything else is secondary

Surely you’ve seen the “don’t care, had sex” memes floating all over fb by now

If I remember correctly, one of the first exchanges I had with you since coming back, was on this very topic (when I thought you were a guy) and I tried to explain the difference in libidos between men and women

It still amazes me how utterly clueless women are when it comes to how important sex is for men.

I’m not saying none of the stuff you’re saying is wrong, I’m just saying it’s pointless to men. The end goal for us sex. Everything else is secondary

Surely you’ve seen the “don’t care, had sex” memes floating all over fb by now

I actually haven't seen those but I will look them up I love a good meme.

Women know how important sex is for men. Why else would a nobody with a hot body become rich from her Instagram account? Because she knows if she posts bikini pics she can attract lots of men to her account, drive up her follower numbers and be approached by companies to promote their products for money.

Women know, and for some it's the most effective weapon they have and a big reason why this site even exists.

 

[El Payaso]

Your intention likely isn't to give her a life lesson because you generally care about her becoming a better person, it's probably more centred on an "eye for an eye" mentality because of the negative emotions she triggered in you, regardless of subtle they may have been.

It's not necessarily wrong to have the impulse to do what you said. I'd say nearly everyone on this board, including myself, would feel the same urge if put in the same situation.

Naturally, if someone slapped you you'll likely want to slap them back. If someone insulted you, you'll likely have the urge to say something back. But when you slap or insult someone in return, you don't do it with the intention for constructive learning to take place for their benefit. And in your case, enough time has passed by that your reaction is not immediate reciprocation, instead it is calculated and planned.

Your intentions then seem to be to deliberately upset her, to give her "a taste of her own medicine"... Which begs the question, "Why?"

I assume it's not because you have the heart of a teacher, but it's more likely because she hurt you or bruised your ego.

The point of my reply is not to tell you what you should or should't do, what you do or don't feel, but to share my observation that I hope can add perspective and insight to your interactions and intentions, in order to help you do what is best for you and your growth.

My intention is to get her off my nuts. Like I said, I have no interest in her anymore but she keeps bugging me. Mind you, I have gotten two new numbers since I nexted her and she keeps getting them from friends.

At this point, I figure if she knew I was dating someone else, she would leave me alone. However, I want to do it in a way that hits her hardest which is why I asked.

 

[Spaz]

Hmm I'm not sure sex-starved = stressed. In the 6 months I consciously took off woman I was eating better sleeping better, working out more and generally kicking goals. Obviously that is an age and experience thing. You've had enough Priors that you know you can easily hop back on the bike.

I actually recommend friends to go monk for a least a month/year and go do some serious hunting/camping/island hopping etc.

It helps with me and for many who's tried it. A modern man is bombarded daily by female narratives in cities/workplace/society and he needs to time out and reconnect with his inner self, recharge that natural masculinity then return back to society as a proper functioning male.

 

[Spaz]

My intention is to get her off my nuts. Like I said, I have no interest in her anymore but she keeps bugging me. Mind you, I have gotten two new numbers since I nexted her and she keeps getting them from friends.

At this point, I figure if she knew I was dating someone else, she would leave me alone. However, I want to do it in a way that hits her hardest which is why I asked.

We all get those types once in a while, fvcking stalkers who can't take the hint.

I go full caveman/demonic mode and it scares the shiet out of them.

 

[AJ84]

My intention is to get her off my nuts. Like I said, I have no interest in her anymore but she keeps bugging me. Mind you, I have gotten two new numbers since I nexted her and she keeps getting them from friends.

At this point, I figure if she knew I was dating someone else, she would leave me alone. However, I want to do it in a way that hits her hardest which is why I asked.

Closing the loop will hit her the hardest. If she feels there is a chance she can win you over with her charms she will try.
She had her chance and she didn't go for it then, the offer has expired.
"I'm with someone, and want to see where that goes, all the best take care".
Even if you don't want to see where it goes with the girl you are currently dating, even if you have a string of girls going lol, by saying this to her you're sending her the msg that you are no longer interested and she is not worth you taking attention away from who you are dating and giving that attention to her. The "take care" part is the final goodbye part.

Then, don't reply to her msgs or take her calls.

 

[spred]

My intention is to get her off my nuts. Like I said, I have no interest in her anymore but she keeps bugging me. Mind you, I have gotten two new numbers since I nexted her and she keeps getting them from friends.

At this point, I figure if she knew I was dating someone else, she would leave me alone. However, I want to do it in a way that hits her hardest which is why I asked.

Do what AJ and others said, "... I am with another girl ... Take care"

The best revenge is living well.

 

[AJ84]

Do what AJ and others said, "... I am with another girl ... Take care"

The best revenge is living well.

Love that statement!

 

[TheProspect]

My intention is to get her off my nuts. Like I said, I have no interest in her anymore but she keeps bugging me. Mind you, I have gotten two new numbers since I nexted her and she keeps getting them from friends.

At this point, I figure if she knew I was dating someone else, she would leave me alone. However, I want to do it in a way that hits her hardest which is why I asked.

That’s understandable, and it would make sense, but you first said that you wanted (intended) to give her a taste of her own medicine so she learns not to waste other people’s time.

You seem to be planning an action with the intention to harm her because you’re still bitter over how she treated you. If you meant no harm you’d leave her alone as it would be best for the both of you.

If she gets ahold of your new number, block her.

If she shows up where you live/work, ignore her.

If she doesn’t take the hint, get a restraining order.

I may be wrong, but I think you’re rationalizing the nature of your intentions in order to justify hurting someone in the name of retribution.

 

[Masculinity]

There was a woman I was trying to hook up with a while ago. She was playing hard to get so I decided to next her.

Now she's chasing after me. Constantly blowing up my phone, sending me pictures, asking when can we meet up etc. I am currently seeing someone else and have no interest in her anymore.

Do I tell her I am seeing someone else or let her see me with the new woman?

I'd tell her you're with another woman. If something changes in the future and you become single, you're value would be higher in her eyes and you'd have a smoother transition back to her, should you decide to spend time with her.