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Mad?Don't need to.
Mad?
No hon, that would require me to care.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mad?Don't need to.
Mad?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You cared a whole lot when you were trolling my ass in other threads.Mad?
No hon, that would require me to care.
#4. "BPD" women.Glassguy,
I've been on here a few years . I'd say the main couple of problems are:
#1. Trying to raise a females interest level.
#2. Pedastalling "hot girls"
#3. Trying to get an ex back
We need to be fvcking the bytches that we can and not overanalyzing things.
I agree. Women with a high interest level will make it easy to get them out on a date and eventually fvck them. Plain and simple. If they are not making it easy, they need a "next". Spin more plates, fill up your rotation based on the available time you have to see chicks and go from there. If you next one by stopping communication, and she comes back around, put her back into your rotation but on the bottom of the list.Glassguy,
I've been on here a few years . I'd say the main couple of problems are:
#1. Trying to raise a females interest level.
#2. Pedastalling "hot girls"
#3. Trying to get an ex back
We need to be fvcking the bytches that we can and not overanalyzing things.
They say a bytch or assh0le will try to come back to see if your still stupid.I agree. Women with a high interest level will make it easy to get them out on a date and eventually fvck them. Plain and simple. If they are not making it easy, they need a "next". Spin more plates, fill up your rotation based on the available time you have to see chicks and go from there. If you next one by stopping communication, and she comes back around, put her back into your rotation but on the bottom of the list.
If a woman doesnt make it easy in the beginning, she isnt going to make it any easier after you finally chase her around and get her out.
Ex's should stay exes. There is a reason it didnt work. Most of the time when guys get an ex back things go right back to the same way if not worse and you just waste more of your life on some flakey bytch.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
+ 1First off, if anyone actually thinks @El Payaso doesn't already know the answer to his own question you're delusional.
Either hook up with her or ignore her completely. No need to waste time.There was a woman I was trying to hook up with a while ago. She was playing hard to get so I decided to next her.
Now she's chasing after me. Constantly blowing up my phone, sending me pictures, asking when can we meet up etc. I am currently seeing someone else and have no interest in her anymore.
Do I tell her I am seeing someone else or let her see me with the new woman?
Yes. It’s an especially true tactic of women that aren’t happy with their current option…They say a bytch or assh0le will try to come back to see if your still stupid.
Hahaha quote of the year!Guys, never take no dating advice from a damn woman. That's like taking fishing advice from a fuking salmon.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This might be the best advice I have ever read @ SoSuave.When a woman is into a guy, she doesn't play hard to get, she's responsive. This woman wasn't responsive, you were not her top choice and her coming around now is likely her attempt to use you as a fall back between her preferred choices.
So don't be the fall back. Let her know that you are with someone and just leave it at that. No point in ruining a current thing you have going for revenge/ validation sex with a woman who rejected you before and is likely wanting an ego boost from a guy who she knew was interested, while she continues looking for her preferred choice.
This is how women build orbiters and back up plans.
Don't give her the satisfaction![]()
Why is it stupid? Should I fvck the nasty old homeless woman because it's easy?Never throw away easy pussie. Its just stupid.
If your not getting none take what you can get till you can get what you want.Why is it stupid? Should I fvck the nasty old homeless woman because it's easy?
I prefer not to be a slave to my biological urges. I'll pass on the yeast and do something productive with my time, thanks.If your not getting none take what you can get till you can get what you want.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
3, 6 or more months go by there will be some losses man. Women don't like to fvck someone who isn't fvcking. It's not being a slave to your urges. It's knowing what you need as a man and whats good for your psyche. you can bone a friend a couple times a week without being a slave to your urges.I prefer not to be a slave to my biological urges. I'll pass on the yeast and do something productive with my time, thanks.
I'm a recovered alcoholic and I view sex like alcohol. I enjoy it but I don't need it. I can go without either indefinitely if it's what is best for me. I don't believe sex is good for your psyche, necessarily. It releases the same chemical ****tail that drugs do. Although I'm sure there's research proving me wrong on that one.3, 6 or more months go by there will be some losses man. Women don't like to fvck someone who isn't fvcking. It's not being a slave to your urges. It's knowing what you need as a man and whats good for your psyche. you can bone a friend a couple times a week without being a slave to your urges.
Do you believe we are all wired differently? Some of you are wired to prefer to be alone, not want to be close to someone. With me it's a definite and long lasting mood improvement. I'm more impervious to stressful situations. My confidence higher. Part of my MALE IMAGE is that of being a SEXUAL male, so you just can't kill that without hurting my image some.I'm a recovered alcoholic and I view sex like alcohol. I enjoy it but I don't need it. I can go without either indefinitely if it's what is best for me. I don't believe sex is good for your psyche, necessarily. It releases the same chemical ****tail that drugs do. Although I'm sure there's research proving me wrong on that one.
I didn't notice an overall increase in mood after the sex with my girlfriend became regular. Obviously the immediate and hours after you feel great but that's not a good reason to chase sex recklessly.
Stress is the trigger for any addiction. Just because an addiction isn't a problem yet, doesn't mean you're not harboring a mild one. People use all sorts of things to self medicate their stress, whether it's eating, alcohol, drugs and even sex. If you're relying on something chemical to deal with your stress, you're not mentally healthy in my opinion. That's not an insult, just an opinion.Versus a stressed
In some ways yes, in other ways no. I have a high sex drive when I am with a woman, particularly one I like. But sex is like eating. You can be healthy about it or you can use it as a tool to self medicate, at worst it can be harmful.Do you believe we are all wired differently?
Yeah, I'm not saying don't do it. I don't think you have a problem at all, I'm just saying be aware of your drives. Control them or they control you.It greases my wheels and allows my creativity and heat to rise and hold at a higher height. That's ME and I"m okay with it.
I think it's less the physical sex itself and more the lack of caring. But I'm open to being wrong on that because it is a phenomena I have experienced. But since I'm not desperate for sex, I don't have trouble running game even if I have gone without for a while. There's not a super noticeable difference to me. I'm a Buddhist and practice CBT so I'm very calm and stress free most of the time, regardless of what is going on around me.And I learned that SEX and the easy access to it affects your subconscious and people can see it. They are more attracted and charmed by a sexually active man.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.