Hey guys,
I turned 30 in early november. For the last month or so i've been talking to a woman of 34. She's a friend of a friends girlfriend.
Initally I told her we would be better off as friends after our 1st date, however, she persisted in chasing me and she came to my apartment last friday.
We didnt sleep together then but on sunday she brought a mini xmas tree to mine and put it up. We ended up sleeping together twice on sunday.
I can sense shes looking for a relationship just by some of the things she's said. ("Lets hit the town at new years" "come to mine for dinner" etc)
I honestly can't see myself being with this woman long term as I don't feel that way about her.
She has 2 girls of 14 and 17. How would you guys proceed with this?
Right now i'm just lookin to play the field before settling down later in my 30's (maybe), i have no interest in a relationship right now (perhaps just with this woman).
I know either way i'll probably be accused of using her for sex and an xmas tree .
Thanks,
Mick
I turned 30 in early november. For the last month or so i've been talking to a woman of 34. She's a friend of a friends girlfriend.
Initally I told her we would be better off as friends after our 1st date, however, she persisted in chasing me and she came to my apartment last friday.
We didnt sleep together then but on sunday she brought a mini xmas tree to mine and put it up. We ended up sleeping together twice on sunday.
I can sense shes looking for a relationship just by some of the things she's said. ("Lets hit the town at new years" "come to mine for dinner" etc)
I honestly can't see myself being with this woman long term as I don't feel that way about her.
She has 2 girls of 14 and 17. How would you guys proceed with this?
Right now i'm just lookin to play the field before settling down later in my 30's (maybe), i have no interest in a relationship right now (perhaps just with this woman).
I know either way i'll probably be accused of using her for sex and an xmas tree .
Thanks,
Mick