PeasantPlayer
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Getting free drinks? Free lap dances? Free cover charge to a club? ETC lets hear some stories
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What's the best night you had with women when going out?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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Just dancing and vibin' in an all around good way, getting a bit sexual. Don't care about free drinks, lap dances, or any of that materialistic sh1t. Forgot you said to add a story! I shall do so!
So alright this happened on Friday. Me and my two friends go out to bar hop downtown. We start off in this chill place just playing pool and having a good time. My friend says there are two girls (other friend has a GF) that want to meet up with us. Walk over to the next bar and meet up with them. ALl is well, pretty cool girls. I didn't really care because it was after finals and i just wanted to drink and dance (i likke dancing) and just not have a care in the world.
We end up swapping bars, but these two girls were digging me pretty damn hard. This song comes on that I really like so BY MYSELF i just go into the middle of the dance floor and start busting it out, doing whatever the **** I want. People looked at me oddly, then joined in! THEN those two girls joined in. One grinded on my left leg and the other on my right :O. Then the sexier of the two grinded on me solo while her friend grinded her from the front. Just going hard to some great music, couldn't have asked for a better night. Ended up making out with both of them. My buddy drove, when I told them I had to leave they asked me to come home with them :O (3 sum?! ) but I didn't go, I had to work at 7am plus I didn't trust these two women to get me home lol.
All in all, when I go out Idon't give a **** about women or getting them. I just vibe to the music, hop into the middle of the dance floor and whatever happens happens. A lot of girls picked up on that to, it was easy to just start dancing then find a girl and pull her in and start dancing with her to. It was like i was a ****ing vacuum.
So alright this happened on Friday. Me and my two friends go out to bar hop downtown. We start off in this chill place just playing pool and having a good time. My friend says there are two girls (other friend has a GF) that want to meet up with us. Walk over to the next bar and meet up with them. ALl is well, pretty cool girls. I didn't really care because it was after finals and i just wanted to drink and dance (i likke dancing) and just not have a care in the world.
We end up swapping bars, but these two girls were digging me pretty damn hard. This song comes on that I really like so BY MYSELF i just go into the middle of the dance floor and start busting it out, doing whatever the **** I want. People looked at me oddly, then joined in! THEN those two girls joined in. One grinded on my left leg and the other on my right :O. Then the sexier of the two grinded on me solo while her friend grinded her from the front. Just going hard to some great music, couldn't have asked for a better night. Ended up making out with both of them. My buddy drove, when I told them I had to leave they asked me to come home with them :O (3 sum?! ) but I didn't go, I had to work at 7am plus I didn't trust these two women to get me home lol.
All in all, when I go out Idon't give a **** about women or getting them. I just vibe to the music, hop into the middle of the dance floor and whatever happens happens. A lot of girls picked up on that to, it was easy to just start dancing then find a girl and pull her in and start dancing with her to. It was like i was a ****ing vacuum.
PeasantPlayer
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Hahahahaha nice
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Eternal_water
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Bearing in mind the whole virgin thing, this is definitely my best night for pulling
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=219379
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