PeasantPlayer
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Getting free drinks? Free lap dances? Free cover charge to a club? ETC lets hear some stories
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What's the best night you had with women when going out?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JohnChops
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Just dancing and vibin' in an all around good way, getting a bit sexual. Don't care about free drinks, lap dances, or any of that materialistic sh1t. Forgot you said to add a story! I shall do so!
So alright this happened on Friday. Me and my two friends go out to bar hop downtown. We start off in this chill place just playing pool and having a good time. My friend says there are two girls (other friend has a GF) that want to meet up with us. Walk over to the next bar and meet up with them. ALl is well, pretty cool girls. I didn't really care because it was after finals and i just wanted to drink and dance (i likke dancing) and just not have a care in the world.
We end up swapping bars, but these two girls were digging me pretty damn hard. This song comes on that I really like so BY MYSELF i just go into the middle of the dance floor and start busting it out, doing whatever the **** I want. People looked at me oddly, then joined in! THEN those two girls joined in. One grinded on my left leg and the other on my right :O. Then the sexier of the two grinded on me solo while her friend grinded her from the front. Just going hard to some great music, couldn't have asked for a better night. Ended up making out with both of them. My buddy drove, when I told them I had to leave they asked me to come home with them :O (3 sum?! ) but I didn't go, I had to work at 7am plus I didn't trust these two women to get me home lol.
All in all, when I go out Idon't give a **** about women or getting them. I just vibe to the music, hop into the middle of the dance floor and whatever happens happens. A lot of girls picked up on that to, it was easy to just start dancing then find a girl and pull her in and start dancing with her to. It was like i was a ****ing vacuum.
So alright this happened on Friday. Me and my two friends go out to bar hop downtown. We start off in this chill place just playing pool and having a good time. My friend says there are two girls (other friend has a GF) that want to meet up with us. Walk over to the next bar and meet up with them. ALl is well, pretty cool girls. I didn't really care because it was after finals and i just wanted to drink and dance (i likke dancing) and just not have a care in the world.
We end up swapping bars, but these two girls were digging me pretty damn hard. This song comes on that I really like so BY MYSELF i just go into the middle of the dance floor and start busting it out, doing whatever the **** I want. People looked at me oddly, then joined in! THEN those two girls joined in. One grinded on my left leg and the other on my right :O. Then the sexier of the two grinded on me solo while her friend grinded her from the front. Just going hard to some great music, couldn't have asked for a better night. Ended up making out with both of them. My buddy drove, when I told them I had to leave they asked me to come home with them :O (3 sum?! ) but I didn't go, I had to work at 7am plus I didn't trust these two women to get me home lol.
All in all, when I go out Idon't give a **** about women or getting them. I just vibe to the music, hop into the middle of the dance floor and whatever happens happens. A lot of girls picked up on that to, it was easy to just start dancing then find a girl and pull her in and start dancing with her to. It was like i was a ****ing vacuum.
PeasantPlayer
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Hahahahaha nice
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Eternal_water
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Bearing in mind the whole virgin thing, this is definitely my best night for pulling
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=219379
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=219379