Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What's that need for people to support their country in the world cup

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Why do people do this? You see houses, cars, clothes decorated in the colors of the country's flag.

Is it just the need to feel part of something? To hope their country does good so they feel better about themselves?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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or maybe they just like football? gosh i hate football, but if i liked it i probably still wouldnt watch matches because it would be more interesting to play than to watch someone playing
 

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Sense of belonging, love of the game and wanting to support your team. I support and have watched most of the matches so far - would never decorate my house or car with flags though.
 

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It actually goes deeper than just being a fan of football or soccer as we call it here in the US. Studies have been conducted as to why we (men mostly) fervently follow a team or club. Fact is, it's rooted deep in our DNA and dates back thousands of years to tribal and clan warfare. Certain tribes would dress a certain way or wear war paint in a certain manner. When we back a team, it's the same biological tendencies getting stoked; feeling of being attached or threatened by another tribe or clan. So we wear the colors, fly the flag, and some even paint their face. I must admit, I do get emotional when pulling for my teams especially those I have an emotional connection to like the Wisconsin Badgers (alma mater).

So, next time your woman asks why you get so worked up about a sporting event, tell her you can't help it it's in your DNA.

Because the US is out of the World Cup, I'm pulling for Poland and Iceland because of my ethnic hertiage.
 
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