"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been dealing with a girl I found over the net who went to my same high school but graduated a year later.. we exchanged pics a while back, she said I was cute, etc. I thought she was cute too. For several different reasons (super busy, being sick, etc) I haven't met up with her in person yet but I plan to.

She doesn't seem like your typical 21st century chick. She seems to have good morals and seems like the kind of girl you'd look for when wanting a LTR - intelligent, reserved, a little shy, doesn't go out too late. Telling from the way that she never calls me unless I call her first and she missed the call, you could tell she's the type that likes to be courted; hence, won over.

I called her Saturday so we could meet up for coffee but she missed the call. Today when I got on AIM she IMed me saying she was sorry she missed the call and she had been out all day. She goes, "Call me later and I promiseee to pick up."

Do you think I should be the one to call her again, or is it her turn to call? Mind you that she's definitely the shy type but I need suggestions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you want to call her?

Then call her.
 
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How many times have you talked to her? If the 2 of you have talked alot I would say.......
No, we havent talked alot. then yes call her but dont make a habit of calling her because then she will know that you will call.

Yes, we have talked alot. NOPE DONT CALL!! Let her wonder why you havent called and SHE WILL CALL YOU!!!!

These are just my experiences. After I get a chicks number I will call them 2-3 times without them calling me, then I will just quit and they always call. If they were interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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