"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been dealing with a girl I found over the net who went to my same high school but graduated a year later.. we exchanged pics a while back, she said I was cute, etc. I thought she was cute too. For several different reasons (super busy, being sick, etc) I haven't met up with her in person yet but I plan to.

She doesn't seem like your typical 21st century chick. She seems to have good morals and seems like the kind of girl you'd look for when wanting a LTR - intelligent, reserved, a little shy, doesn't go out too late. Telling from the way that she never calls me unless I call her first and she missed the call, you could tell she's the type that likes to be courted; hence, won over.

I called her Saturday so we could meet up for coffee but she missed the call. Today when I got on AIM she IMed me saying she was sorry she missed the call and she had been out all day. She goes, "Call me later and I promiseee to pick up."

Do you think I should be the one to call her again, or is it her turn to call? Mind you that she's definitely the shy type but I need suggestions.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you want to call her?

Then call her.
 
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How many times have you talked to her? If the 2 of you have talked alot I would say.......
No, we havent talked alot. then yes call her but dont make a habit of calling her because then she will know that you will call.

Yes, we have talked alot. NOPE DONT CALL!! Let her wonder why you havent called and SHE WILL CALL YOU!!!!

These are just my experiences. After I get a chicks number I will call them 2-3 times without them calling me, then I will just quit and they always call. If they were interested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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