"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sifer

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Sooo... it's been so long since I've been here. Wow. Just wow.

What is new in the forum? It looks like... they added advertisements... all the people I used to know seem to be.. gone? What else?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sifer

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speakeasy said:
Obama was elected president.
No fool, I mean the forum. I already get enough real life as-is.
 

It's-Me

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The forum is under new management and it's going to be totally redesigned - That's right, instead of learning how to pick up woman, the new forum will show us where are the best places to find prostitutes :).
 

sifer

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It's-Me said:
The forum is under new management and it's going to be totally redesigned - That's right, instead of learning how to pick up woman, the new forum will show us where are the best places to find prostitutes :).
Haha, that is awesome man. So where ARE the best places to find prostitutes? <nudge nudge>
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The bpd post's have seemed to die away in the last 2 years. I remember when i first joined there was atleast one discussion a week on it. Alot less advice threads are being opened up as well.

I don't go into the discussion forum much anymore because its like 100-1, afc's-to non afc's and it's hard to get a good thread going. I just stay in the anything else forum most of the time.

I missed the old threads where we actually used to use our brains and have good legit debates that lead to mind opening answers/discussions. SS has improved my writing dramatically among many other things but it really hasn't done much for me lately.
 
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